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Brenda Day Crosby Collins

December 30th, 1957 - November 25th, 2023

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Lifetime Estacada resident, Brenda Collins, passed away peacefully at her home with her family by her side on Saturday, November 25, 2023 after battling cancer for two years.  Brenda was a beloved grandmother, mother, wife, sister, daughter, and friend during her 65 years of life.

Brenda Carol Day was born December 30, 1957 in Oregon City, Oregon to Duane and Carolyn “June” (Harbert) Day.  She was raised in Estacada and graduated from Estacada High School in 1976.  After attending some college Brenda started working for Cascade Utilities, now Reliance Connects, in 1978.  That same year Brenda met Steve Crosby and they later married on August 18, 1979.  Brenda and Steve had two children, Brooke Crosby (now Brooke Wheeler) and Scott Crosby.  Tragically, Steve died on March 26, 2011.  Brenda was blessed to meet another wonderful partner, Steve Collins and they were married on June 11, 2022.

During her life, Brenda enjoyed traveling, spending time with friends and family and attending as many youth sporting events of her grandsons as possible.  She was a devoted mother and grandmother, loving wife, cherished friend, and fearless leader.

Brenda is survived by her husband, Steve Collins; daughter, Brooke Wheeler and her husband Ben; son, Scott Crosby and his wife Erin; parents, Duane and June Day; brother, Gordon Day; grandchildren, Hank Wheeler, Otis Wheeler, Calvin Wheeler, Steven Crosby and Maxwell Crosby; and many loving nieces and nephews.

A celebration of Brenda’s life will be held at 3:00 PM, Saturday, December 16, 2023 at Estacada Junior High Auditorium.  Private inurnment will be at the Springwater Cemetery Columbarium.

Donations may be made to the Estacada Community Foundation in Brenda's name.

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Brenda (and Steve) were the type of parents we were all grateful to have in our lives. They were the parents who showed up, + came to ALL of our practices and games that they could. They were unconditionally supportive, of not only their children, but their teammates as well. I'm heartbroken that they are gone so young, as I truly cared for them both. Those who knew them were blessed, but their memories aren't forgotten.
Sending lots of love to all of the Crosby/Day/Collins/Wheeler families through this difficult time.
Kelly Todd (Misley)
Kelly Hale has made a donation of $500.00 to ESTACADA COMMUNITY FOUNDATION Kelly Hale
Mark Staley has made a donation of $500.00 to ESTACADA COMMUNITY FOUNDATION Mark Staley
Kevin Raymond has made a donation of $500.00 to ESTACADA COMMUNITY FOUNDATION Kevin Raymond
Dean Fischer has made a donation of $300.00 to ESTACADA COMMUNITY FOUNDATION Dean Fischer
Your family is in our thoughts and payers during this trying time. We are very sorry for your loss. for your loss Matt Herb
Lots of prayers and love for the family during this hard time. 🙏
Brenda will be dearly missed!
Lynn Peterson
Kitty O'Keefe has purchased Eternal Friendship for Brenda Day Crosby Collins Kitty O'Keefe
Katrina Yap has made a donation of $100.00 to ESTACADA COMMUNITY FOUNDATION Katrina Yap
Alan Jochim has made a donation of $50.00 to ESTACADA COMMUNITY FOUNDATION Alan Jochim
My heartfelt sympathy and prayers go out to Brenda’s family and many friends 💞🙏👼 Lee Forbes
So sorry to the family and a very good friend to me Pamela R Lee
The Myrick Family has purchased Lush Greenery Basket for Brenda Day Crosby Collins The Myrick Family
This quote by Emerson describes Brenda perfectly:
"The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well."
Our sincere sympathy on your loss.
Jim and Debbie Brochis
Debbie Brochis

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